About

I was born in Cape Town, South Africa and never would have imagined that I’d end up living in Toronto, working as a Professional Dominatrix. But when I think about it, I suppose it wasn’t that out of character for me.

I’ve always been very headstrong, some would say stubborn;) I didn’t follow the crowd when I was growing up and preferred to do my own thing. I’ve also always been dominant in my relationships. I never bothered with boys my own age because I had nothing in common with them. They also weren’t really a challenge because I could get my way so easily with them. Where’s the fun in that?!

So I always toyed with older men when I was in high school. I enjoyed teasing them and making them squirm. I would let them buy me drinks when I went out clubbing (I was a bit of a wild child). But I never gave them what I wanted. I guess you could say I perfected the art of Tease & Denial as a teenager.

You feel quite disconnected from the rest of the world living in South Africa. So I jumped at the chance of moving to Toronto after I received a scholarship to continue my studies in psychology. I’ve always been strong academically and was even the class Valedictorian! I wonder what my teachers would think if they could see me now?

I was pretty sure that I would continue with my studies and get my Ph.D in clinical psychology. I’ve always been interested in how the mind works. I also really enjoyed my practicum placement in my final year. In fact, my supervised therapy sessions were the favourite part of my studies.

But I didn’t like how my supervisor always pushed for a diagnosis. Yes, being diagnosed with a mental illness is often very helpful. But what about the person who is just socially awkward and prefers to spend most of his time working and playing video games. Who am I to say that he has a personality disorder?

Likewise, I really didn’t like the way unusual sexual practices or preferences were seen as abnormal. So what if your dick gets hard when you see the pink, wrinkly soles of a woman’s feet?

I became disillusioned with clinical psychology in the final year of my Bachelor’s degree, but still applied to graduate school and was accepted. But I had started playing around with the online scene when I stumbled on the world of webcam modelling. I saw a job posting on facebook and was initially attracted to the promise that I’d earn thousands of dollars every month. Obviously I like money and being a starving student didn’t really suit me;)

I’d never done any work like that before, but I felt right at home after I logged in to my cam room for the first time. It was such a thrill knowing that I had all these men in the palm of my hands and I didn’t even have to leave my apartment! Some men saw me as an innocent college girl, which I totally wasn’t!

But I played into that role for awhile until I got bored with it. I really enjoyed my fetish boys though. It was so much fun spending hours in cam2cam private sessions telling them that they weren’t even worth licking the dirt off my stiletto heels. I couldn’t believe people would pay me for that, but I knew I wanted more.

So I started my own site and slowly ditched the sweet college girl persona. There is obviously an element of performance in BDSM play, but I’m not really an actress.

Now when potential slaves and worshippers join Bella Bellini’s official Femdom and fetish site. They can get to know the real me. I still have a lot of fun with tease and denial games. In fact, I do a lot of tease and denial in my 5 members only fetish cam shows every week.

I also indulge in my own fetish desires on MissBellaBellini.com I have a huge latex fetish. But I also enjoy wearing leather corsets, nylons, shiny spandex, and of course I’m always in high heels.

I bring my psychology training into my fetish photos femdom videos, and live fetish cam shows. Except I do strap-on training instead of cognitive behavioural therapy and slave assignments instead of working on your self-esteem;)

Obviously I keep most of the hot stuff exclusive to members of MissBellaBellini.com. But I’ll be sharing some of my adventures and experiences in the online Domme scene, as well as my in person sessions as a Toronto Dominatrix.

You can also book a live fetish cam session with me. Or order a custom fetish and femdom video.

I encourage you to contact me and comment. I really do enjoy getting to know people online, as long as you remember to be respectful.

Let the games begin!
Mistress Bella Bellini